Tuesday 6 December 2016

Yho umAfrika undilahlile

Haz' ukuba ndeenzani na?
Sono sam yintoni na?
Ubugqi obungaka kweli lizwe
Inkohlakalo engaka kulo mhlaba
Owu mawethu, igqwirha elandithakathaka sela sweleka, ndiyacinga
Kodwa ubugqirhwa balo bundihleli okwe meva emxhadini
Ndijikwele nangulo bendisilwa naye ubuhlanga
Ndilityelwe nangulo bendimncedisa ukulwa ukubalulwa ngesini
Ndindedwa ndililolo, inkomo edla yodwa
Baphi na ababengamahlwempu ndawonye nam?
Sisokola sithuthuzelana sikhuthazana sonke elokishini?

Yho umAfrika undilahlile, ndingumAfrika mna kuqala, mandikhe ndizibuze?
Ngoba ndoniwa nanguye umAfrika
Undijulele lee kwingcuka ukuba zindiqwenge
Namhlanje ubumna asibubo ubuAfrika
Kunamhlanje inkululeko ifikile, ooTseko Simon Nkoli balityelwe
Singooswelindawo, oNoluvo mntwan' omntu, phumla ngoxolo sisi
Awuwedwa nabanye sebephambili
Esaba xuthwa ngamarhancwa ebesiba ngabantakwethu

Lumkani maAfrika, yakheleni umkhanyo le nto
Hleze nilahle imbo ngophoyiyana
Niyilibale indebe endala
Yokuba umntu ngumntu ngabantu
Nenzele undwendwe, owasemzini, umyurophu ikhaya eAfrika, ngeliphandle ubuntu
Abanye abantu babeyimindlwambe eniyitshutshisayo niyincika
Bayaphela oodadebethu nabantakwethu apha phandle
Siyaphela isizwe samaAfrika nijongile
Zemk' iinkomo zobawo magwala ndini
Ndiyekeni mathenjwa ndini ndizityande igila
Imbongi ayinatyala ibhodla ekuphakiweyo

Thursday 1 December 2016

When you realise that you are your only GUARANTEE

When you realise that you are your only GUARANTEE in this life
That everything is a variable and you are the constant
You find that there’s no other choice but to rely on yourself
More so than ever if you are poor, queer, trans, from a broken family
Black, from the ghetto, extremely neglected by your parents

You learn to cheer for yourself, become a cheerleader for self
Learning about yourself as if you were dating yourself
Giving yourself attention and affording yourself understanding.

You notice your best option is to love yourself, accept yourself
Respect yourself, protect yourself, parent yourself, befriend yourself
Discipline yourself, reinvent yourself if the need arises
Exercise kindness towards self and be polite with self
You start esteeming yourself, confiding to yourself and building more confidence in yourself

You worship, adore, admire, love and honour yourself
Being loving to self through actions towards self, words about self, 
Decisions take for self and thoughts about self

Your life becomes very personalised
Subjective and real, at least with respect to you
You live for yourself, by yourself, in yourself
Your experience becomes validated and legitimised by yourself
You start feeling appreciated and valued by you

You become the producer, distributor and consumer of your own story
Owning every piece of it: the good, the bad and the ugly
Choose whomever, whenever and whatever to share
You become a fully realised agent, able to actualise self

This is before others come and join you in your beautiful house
Then you share this world with them and allow them to share theirs with you
Indeed two beautiful worlds are better than one
However two terrifying worlds are far worse off than one
So this realisation of self-love become a guarantee of being well-off
By yourself or in a relationship

Therefore invest in yourself, bet on yourself and believe in yourself